Language consists of the words we use to communicate ideas and express our needs. It involves listening, speaking, understanding, reading, and writing.
Communication & language milestones mark significant stages in a child’s development journey, from infancy to adulthood. Understanding these stages is crucial for parents, caregivers, and educators to provide effective support and nurture children’s communication skills throughout their development.
Birth to 1 Year:
- Crying as a means of communication, indicating needs like hunger, discomfort, or fatigue.
- Notices sounds.
- Makes cooing sounds like “oooo” and “ahh.”
- Babbling emerges around 4-6 months, with repetitive consonant-vowel combinations (e.g., “bababa” or “dadada”).
- Responding to familiar voices and sounds.
- Understanding simple words like “no” or their name.
- Gesturing (pointing, waving) to communicate desires or intentions.
- Recognizing and responding to familiar faces.
13 to 18 Months:
- Looks around when asked “where” questions, like “Where’s your blanket?”
- Follows simple instructions like “give” or “show” such as “Give me the ball,” “Come here,” or “Show me your eyes.”
- Points to ask for things or share thoughts.
- Shakes head for “no” and nods for “yes.”
- Knows and says words for common things and people.
- Identifies body parts.
- Uses gestures for excitement, like clapping or giving high-fives, or for humor, like sticking out their tongue or making funny faces.
- Combines sounds, syllables, and words in speech.
19 to 24 Months:
- Understands and uses at least 50 words for food, toys, animals, and body parts. Speech may not always be clear, with variations like “du” for “shoe” or “dah” for “dog.”
- Combines two or more words in speech, such as “more water” or “go outside.”
- Follows two-step instructions, like “Get the spoon, put it on the table.”
- Uses personal pronouns like “me,” “mine,” and “you.”
- Asks for help using words.
- Demonstrates understanding of possessives, like “Daddy’s sock.”
2 to 3 Years:
- Uses word combinations frequently, sometimes repeating words or phrases.
- Seeks attention by saying phrases like “Look at me!”
- Says their name when asked.
- Uses some plural words and -ing verbs.
- Talks about past actions with -ed, like “looked” or “played.”
- Provides explanations or reasons for situations, such as needing a coat when it’s cold.
- Asks questions like “why” and “how.”
- Answers questions about actions or choices.
- Says consonants p, b, m, h, w, d, and n clearly.
- Says most vowels correctly.
- Speech is improving but may still be unclear to unfamiliar listeners or those unfamiliar with the child.
3 to 4 Years:
- Compares things using words like “bigger” or “shorter.”
- Tells stories from books or videos.
- Understands and uses words for location like “inside,” “on,” and “under.”
- Talks about things using words like “a” or “the.”
- Pretends to read alone or with others.
- Recognizes signs like “STOP.”
- Pretends to write or spell and can form some letters.
- Says consonants like t, k, g, f, y, and -ing correctly.
- Pronounces all syllables in a word.
- Identifies sounds at the beginning, middle, and end of words.
- By age 4, speaks fluently without repeating sounds or words.
- By age 4, speech is mostly understandable, although may still have trouble with some sounds like l, j, r, sh, ch, s, v, z, and th.
- By age 4, pronounces all sounds in consonant clusters, but may not always produce them correctly in every word, such as saying “spway” for “spray.”
4 to 5 Years:
- Constructs correct sentences, often longer and more complex.
- Tells stories with main characters, settings, and connecting words like “and.”
- Uses irregular plural forms such as “feet” or “men.”
- Understands and uses location words like “behind” or “between.”
- Appropriately uses time-related words like “yesterday” and “tomorrow.”
- Follows simple directions and game rules.
- Identifies the front cover and title of a book.
- Recognizes and names at least 10 letters, and can usually write their own name.
- Practices reading and writing from left to right.
- Combines word parts and identifies rhyming words.
- Pronounces most consonants correctly, making speech understandable in conversation.
- Birth–3 months: Not smiling or playing with others
- 4–7 months: Not babbling
- 7–12 months: Making only a few sounds. Not using gestures, like waving or pointing.
- 7 months–2 years: Not understanding what others say
- 12–18 months: Saying only a few words
- 1½–2 years: Not putting two words together
- 2 years: Saying fewer than 50 words
- 2–3 years: Having trouble playing and talking with other children
- 2½–3 years: Having problems with early reading and writing. Ex: your child may not like to draw or look at books.
- Preschool Age (3-5 years): Trouble with grammar, pronunciation, and storytelling; lack of interest in books.
- School Age (6-12 years): Difficulty with reading, writing, and comprehension compared to peers; struggles with expressing thoughts clearly.
Speech and language therapy is not just for identified problems—it’s a proactive resource to boost development.
- Difficulty expressing oneself
- Frustration and social challenges
- Hindrance in developing strong relationships
- Emotional connections with peers and adults
- Academic challenges
- Impact on self-esteem and overall well-being
If you’re interested in learning more ways to enhance your child’s development or have concerns about their progress, consider booking an appointment at HSMC. Our team consisting of a Speech Therapist, ENT and Pediatricians is here to support you every step of the way.
Reference Source: American Speech – Hearing – Language Association (ASHA)